Cuffing Season is Here!
9 Life-changing Flags to Watch Out For.
It’s finally Fall! Cue the cute autumn decorations, pumpkin-spiced flavored everything, and the start of cuffing season. Cuffing is essentially the pull people feel to couple up when the weather turns cold and the new year starts creeping up. If you find yourself in a newer relationship this Fall season, here are green, yellow, and red flags to look out for.
Meaning things are good to go, they indicate a person is likely to enter the relationship from a mature and emotionally healthy place.
Things that can cause friction but aren’t detrimental to your health and well-being.
These are detrimental to your health and well-being and should be strongly evaluated before continuing the relationship.
In any situation, dating or otherwise, it is wise to trust your gut. Our instincts are usually right; if something feels too good to be true or a situation feels off, your antenna will go up. Learn to lean into those gut feelings with curiosity: Why am I feeling this way? • What is being communicated to me? • Is this uncomfortable because it’s new or because it’s unsafe? • Is this fear real or imaginary? • Why do I keep questioning this? • Am I trying to convince myself?